Today was a shopping day. I needed some things, and my parents were looking for a few things as well. I will admit that I don't always enjoy shopping with my parents. Before elaborating, may I mention that I truly appreciate how much they are willing to support me and help me, even now.
But, knowing that doesn't always stop me from feeling frustrated sometimes. My parents, especially my mom, like to take time to weigh all the options. Even when something is bought, there's a real chance that it will get returned for something better or cheaper. Sometimes, the shopping process seems to take for...eh...ver. I tend to take a lot less time. Take shoes for example. I look around at the specific category of shoes, find a few that I like, try them on, and narrow it down. Sometimes I have criteria in mind, but I like to think I'm easy to please. It also takes a while to convince me that I need to go shopping for a few more shirts or a new pair of shoes in the first place, if I think what I have is entirely sufficient.
Naturally, there were some clashes in shopping approach and philosophy today, mostly from me. I've gone through it all before in my growing up years, and some old habits die hard. After a store or two, I decided to be still and listen to my parents more often. They are helping to support me, in many more ways than one, for the school year ahead. As frustrating as shopping can be (especially when it drags on for hours and hours at a time), I took time to appreciate the fact that I was with my parents for a few days. I also remembered a statement I encountered earlier in the day: "I hope you enjoy every moment with your family." I am grateful for that wonderful reminder. At the end of the day, I am grateful for all we've accomplished, and for the time we spent together today.
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